In the programmed mind, you think that is about the world of the form, the outside world, The female way requires the spiritual reconciliation first. It is to ask that part of yourself that knows how to solve it in the virtual reality. The great spirit is always listening. The great mother and father are inside you all the time. So you are never alone.
Everything is in divine order and perfect harmony. Ask and talk to the mother and then observe. When the heart is at peace it becomes easy to see and observe everything.
A reality creating limiting emotions is causing aging. The personality creates only what it knows, so to create more or to create different you have to integrate those different parts of yourself. In every incarnation the emotions get stronger, running the body into the ground.
Belonging is giving your power away, setting limitations, boundaries, and stupidity is giving your power away.